Daily Devotions with Chaplain Kenny - Where is she now?

Where is she now?

Some of the Sadducees, who say there is no resurrection, came to Jesus with a question. “Teacher,” they said, “Moses wrote for us that if a man’s brother dies and leaves a wife but no children, the man must marry the widow and raise up offspring for his brother. Now there were seven brothers. The first one married a woman and died childless. The second and then the third married her, and in the same way the seven died, leaving no children. Finally, the woman died too. Now then, at the resurrection whose wife will she be, since the seven were married to her?”

Jesus replied, “The people of this age marry and are given in marriage. But those who are considered worthy of taking part in the age to come and in the resurrection from the dead will neither marry nor be given in marriage, and they can no longer die; for they are like the angels. They are God’s children, since they are children of the resurrection. But in the account of the burning bush, even Moses showed that the dead rise, for he calls the Lord ‘the God of Abraham, and the God of Isaac, and the God of Jacob.’ He is not the God of the dead, but of the living, for to him all are alive.”

Some of the teachers of the law responded, “Well said, teacher!” And no one dared to ask him any more questions.

—Luke 20:27-40 (NIV)

There is a question that can haunt you after someone you love dies. It has been seven years now, today, since my late wife, Barbara, died. Where is she now? We may know where their bodies lie, but what about the rest of them—the mind, the heart, the spirit? Where are they? Do they still exist at all? Or have they vanished, like breath on the wind?

We are Christians. We know the correct answers. But human is human, and grief is grief, and it is not surprising when these kinds of doubts arise in our minds. Jesus does not blame us for it. Instead, He provides us with an answer—and from a really strange place.

Jesus is having a—well, let’s be polite and call it a “discussion” with the Sadducees. This was a Jewish religious group that didn’t believe in the resurrection or in any real kind of life after death, unlike other Jews of Jesus’ time. They try to trap Jesus with a ridiculous story based on a technical point of Moses’ Law. Jesus does answer them—but He does much better for us—He answers the real concern behind the silly story—do the dead still exist?

And He does it by appealing to a really mundane detail—one of God’s favorite names for Himself in the Old Testament. God says to Moses, “I AM the God of your father, the God of Abraham, the God of Isaac, and the God of Jacob” (Exodus 3:6a).

Now that only makes sense if Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob still exist. Otherwise God would have said “I was the God of Abraham,” and so forth. God and Abraham are still in relationship—even 2,000 years after Abraham’s death.

You may be grieving for someone you love right now. I am. And it’s hard to anchor your mind and heart when you think of the person you love but cannot imagine what they are doing right now—where they are, what their surroundings look like. Jesus gives us an anchor. “I am the God of insert name here,” He says. That person still exists, and is in God’s hands. We can be sure, because as Jesus says, “Now He is not God of the dead, but of the living, for all live to Him.”

Lord, help me entrust the people I love into Your hands while they live and when they die. Amen.

In Jesus,
Chaplain Kenny 

In Loving Memory

Barbara Jean Pesicka-Sallee

July 7, 1954—November 22, 2012

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